Episode # 78
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In this Episode, I interview special guest, Sandy Kirkham. Sandy is an author that uses her voice to help victims of clergy abuse and also serves on the board of Council against Child Abuse. She is a wife, mother of two grown children, two beautiful granddaughters and two dogs. In our authentic conversation, Sandy shares her “Comforted To Be A Comfort” God story and how God comforted her as a victim of clergy sexual, emotional and physical abuse as a teenager. She also shares how this abuse left her broken, with a shattered faith and ultimate shame of being blamed and forced her from the church she loved. She goes on to share how she sought justice and how God ultimately healed her to be a comfort to others. To encourage victims of abuse from spiritual leaders who are struggling with wounds of brokenness, she shares ministering words from 2 Corinthians 1:4.
Sandy Phillips Kirkham details her account of how a charismatic youth minister preyed upon her, a betrayal which left her broken, with a shattered faith, and the ultimate shame of being blamed and forced from the church she loved. From their very first meeting, the new youth minister slowly and methodically turned the sacred relationship of a trusted spiritual leader to one of abuse: sexual, emotional, and physical. When his actions were discovered, he was simply moved to another church, leaving Sandy to pay for his deeds. She was not his first victim, nor would she be his last.
Despite a successful and happy life as a wife, mother, and friend, Sandy successfully concealed her abuse for twenty-seven years until a trigger forced her to face the truth. Sandy’s story will take you on her journey of healing which began in 2004, first by seeking justice and closure from both the pastor and the church. Her strength and courage will inspire you. Let Me Prey Upon You details Sandy’s journey from innocent sixteen-year-old victim to survivor and advocate.
Let Me Prey Upon You details Sandy’s journey from innocent sixteen-year-old victim to survivor and advocate.